You’re placing the most precious thing—the baby you’ve dreamed of for so long, invested a lot of time and money in, and possibly endured so much heartache for—into the hands of someone else, often a stranger. It’s a monumental leap of faith. 

An idea you never in your wildest dreams thought you would even consider, and maybe even earlier had turned down with a hard no, slowly becomes more tolerable. This decision is profound and life-changing, and it’s important to navigate this process thoughtfully and with care.

Selecting an egg donor involves many considerations and can feel overwhelming and emotionally draining. Here are some important factors to keep in mind: