Counseling and Support for Navigating Infertility
Research indicates that women experiencing infertility often exhibit depression levels comparable to those diagnosed with cancer, HIV, or heart disease.
Free Monthly Fertility Support Group
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Register HereInfertility Proven to Cause Psychological Stress
Infertility can bring about a myriad of psychological challenges, emotional strains, and financial burdens for both partners. It triggers a range of typical reactions, including shock, sadness, depression, anger, and frustration, often leading to a loss of self-esteem and confidence, as well as a feeling of being out of control.
Infertility is immensely stressful—on par with being diagnosed with cancer or other life-threatening conditions. Because fertility struggles are often kept private, individuals and couples may feel isolated or misunderstood, even by those closest to them.
It can also significantly impact self-esteem and identity, with studies showing high levels of shame, self-doubt, and self-blame.
The Unknown and Intense Loneliness
Infertility's uncertainties can lead to a sense of deep isolation. Seeing others conceive easily may trigger feelings of resentment or grief. Even after successful IVF, new emotional stressors often arise during pregnancy or postpartum. This emotional rollercoaster underscores the need for ongoing mental health support.
Side Effects from Medication on Mental Health
Fertility medications can trigger anxiety, depression, and other mood disturbances—especially when layered on top of the emotional strain of treatment itself. Many people are unprepared for the hormonal shifts and their emotional toll.
Financial Strain Increases Emotional Stress
The high cost of fertility treatment—often not covered by insurance—can amplify feelings of helplessness and desperation. This stress can impact both emotional well-being and partner relationships.
When Is It Time to Consider Donor Conception or Surrogacy?
Many clients come to therapy unsure what to do next. You may be weighing whether to pursue another round of IVF, consider using donor eggs or sperm, or begin exploring surrogacy. This is often one of the most emotionally complex points in the journey—not just a medical decision, but an identity and grief process.
I work with individuals and couples who are stuck in this “in-between” place. Together, we explore what each option means for you emotionally, ethically, and relationally—so you can make a decision that feels right, not rushed.
Learn more about surrogacy, donation, and intended parent consultations.
What Infertility Therapy Provides
Emotional Support: A safe space for individuals and couples to express their emotions
Education: Understanding causes of infertility, treatment options, and pathways to family-building
Coping Strategies: Tools to manage stress, anxiety, grief, and depression
Communication Skills: Navigating difficult conversations and emotional disconnect with your partner
Decision-Making Support: Guidance for weighing medical options, including donor conception, surrogacy, adoption, or living child-free
Addressing Relationship Challenges: Support with blame, resentment, or sexual disconnection
Normalization and Validation: Reducing shame, isolation, and internalized stigma
Preparation for Parenthood: Emotional readiness support during pregnancy after infertility
Post-Treatment Processing: Help after unsuccessful treatment or ambiguous outcomes
Common Symptoms Associated with Infertility
Persistent sadness or depression
Loss of interest in normal activities
Difficulty focusing on anything other than fertility
Heightened anxiety or panic
Irritability or emotional numbness
Sleep or appetite disturbances
Feelings of guilt, shame, or failure
Social withdrawal or isolation
Bitterness toward others who conceive easily
Let’s work together.
Specialized therapy for individuals and couples navigating infertility, IVF, and third-party reproduction. Based in Studio City and licensed in CA, OR, TX & FL—offering both virtual and in-person care.
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